March 25, 2019

The Catechism doesn’t say anything about how to know when you’ve been spending too much time on Insta or when you need to walk away from Pinterest. Like many other areas of life, social media is morally neutral; however, you, being a smart cookie, are mindful that this...

February 26, 2019

There is no custom-designed soulmate for you. There; I said it. As I am already aware from having this debate on social media, some people will want to come after me with pitchforks. I’m okay with that. Just hear me out first, and wait for me to make a will so John and...

January 15, 2019

When discerning a decision rightly, we must shift our focus from "what do I want?" to asking "God, what do you want?" I have dedicated many blog posts to finding and knowing your vocation and other life choices in this world. But there's another layer beneath all of th...

November 5, 2018

Here's an exhaustive list. You should not discern religious life if you are:

  1. Married

  2. Already a priest, nun or monk, or

  3. A consecrated single person

That’s it, in my book. Those are the only reasons not to discern religious life.

I’m writing this because I...

October 23, 2018

This post is for anyone who feels a call to some self-starter initiative, whether it be a creative passion or an entrepreneurial venture. As someone in the arts and who has dabbled in entrepreneurism for many years, I am all too familiar with the infinity of little hou...

October 2, 2018

I hope you love talking about desire as much as I do- for chocolate lava cake, that is. (Being married has made me aware of how often women bond by talking about foods they mutually love. Isn't that strange? But I digress.) If you’ve ever felt selfish for following you...

July 26, 2018

Do you feel pressure to always know what your next life project is, when in reality you feel adrift and messy? Do you fear making a decision in case it’s the wrong one? Do you struggle to take action and don’t have a definite north star or plan of action to guide you?...

May 1, 2018

“Oh my gosh- I’m THAT person.”

Have you ever said these words? What do you fear today- being THAT stinky guy, THAT desperate singleton, THAT girl with issues, THAT guy who never makes it out of the friend zone? Whom do you fear becoming?

I never wanted to be THAT fat gi...

March 1, 2018

Have you ever felt confused about knowing your vocation, when a pros and cons list just doesn’t cut it?  Does it seem that God sometimes becomes silent right when we need him to tell us his will? Do you worry that you’ll make the wrong choice or that you can't know God...

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